For The Parents:

Closed Mind:

Traits:
1) Your very strict
2) You lack trust
3) You're always stressed
4) You try to live in the past
5) You're stubborn
6) Your proud
7) You're self-centered

Although, most of these are good traits when used correctly. People with closed minds tend to use them incorrectly, miss out on a lot of the joys in life, push loved ones away and damage their own health.

This can and does get passed on. Your children will be stressed, stubborn, self-centered Bullies, with a lack of self-esteem, self-confidence and generally get into trouble or find the wrong kinds of friends, because they need bonding.

You need to:
1) Loosen up, be a little more relaxed
2) Show respect and give a little trust
3) Get with the now generation
4) Think about others, not just yourself
5) Build a bond (Start a family night of fun)

You can do this slowly and explain to your loved ones, you are trying and need their help and understanding, while you make the change.

Remember, they are people just like you, they have their needs and wants just like you.

Relax, talk to them about it, understand where they're coming from, trust them and be there for them.

This will:
1) Help them to grow
2) Help you to enjoy life.
3) Help you to have better health.
4) Build a lifetime bond, that can never be broke.

Don't Care:

Traits:
1) You are too relaxed
2) You don't know what your children are doing
3) You have no discipline
4) You have no bond
5) You're priorities are off

Although it is good to be relaxed, it is destroying our children, when you are too relaxed and don't care.

Children will make the wrong friends and get into trouble, because they have no priorities, guidance, discipline and/or love (Bonding)

You need to:
1) Spend more time with your children
2) Get to know them better
3) Set guidelines (rules) for them
4) Set priorities (what's important) for them
5) Discipline when rules are broken
6) Stick to the rules and show by example
7) Build a bond (Start a family night of fun)

This will:
1) Help them to be better people
2) Help them to handle life's many challenges
3) Help them to choose the right path

It is our responsibility to raise our children right, for their own success and better lifestyle!

Our children s actions are a direct reflection on us and how we raised them. This may or may not matter to you, but your children s own life and success should.

You wanted them, you got them, now do the right thing for them. It is up to you to guide them and be there for them!

Thank you and have a wonderful life.
Dr. G

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