Lost Love:

I lost my love, how to get him/her back!

I have noticed, people still ask the age old question "I lost my love, how can I get him/her back"?

People of all ages, lose someone they care about. We always ask why, what happened, What did I do?

First off, if you're asking these questions. You don't love yourself and You are insecure. You may be too pushy or clingy. Remember, pushy and clingy - pushes them away.

We all want love, it is a great feeling, but to be able to receive love, we have to be able to love ourselves first and share that love with others, not push it on them. Love will come to those ready to except it, with no strings attached, unconditional and true!

Things to think about:
1) Do you truly love him/her?
2) Do you truly love yourself?
3) Why did he/she leave?
4) What was the relationship like (last 3 months)?
5) Did you truly listen and understand your love?
6) Did he/she truly listen to you?
7) Does he/she truly love you (Not Lust You)?

Sometimes people just lose that love or, Unfortunately some people confuse love with lust. Are you real when you meet someone? Sometimes people pretend to be someone their not and this is relationship disaster from the beginning. Always "Be Yourself"!

Things to do:
1) Love and respect yourself!
2) Ask him/her to meet (preferably during the day in a public place)!
3) Talk about the present and what happened (Calmly and maturely)!
4) Truly listen and understand (Ask questions)!
5) Thank him/her for the meet and have a good day!

Take it one day at a time, do not push or smother (This is an ugly personality trait). Be secure about yourself and except whatever happens in a mature way. If it's not to be, move on. If you can still be friends, great. This may lead to something later on, but don't push it or expect it. Just let happen, what will be!

Always Love Yourself, Respect Yourself and Be Yourself!

These are my expert opinions, if you would like more detail and another opinion from an expert, please check out Relationship Resources for some great books on this subject and many others!

Thank you and have a wonderful life.
Dr. G

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