How To Build A Lasting Relationship 4 Life

The truth of why relationships fail
Written By: Dr. G {7/4/2010} Family ABC’s

Straight up advice on why your relationships are not working and what you have to do, for stronger, loving and lasting relationships. This book is for all types of relationships in life (family, friends, career, and yes sexual partners).

Knock knock
Who’s there
Who
Who who
You silly old owl, it’s me!

Do you think this is too silly for you?
Then you need this book!

“Mom, Bobby won’t stop hitting me”
“You aren’t going anywhere, till you get this room clean”
“I can’t play right now; I’ve got too much work to do”

Do these sound familiar?
If so, you need this book!

Lasting relationships start at birth, but don’t worry, with a little work and some reprogramming, you CAN start enjoying life again and have that relationship you always dreamed about growing up.

“As I was growing up, I remember my dad worked 3 jobs (1 fulltime & 2 part-time) just to support his family. On Saturdays, we would go as a whole family to pick apples and make some extra money, just so we could go to the drive-in theater on Saturday night (usually a James Bond 007 or Walt Disney movie).
I may not have grown up in a rich family and we did have our fights like any other family, but my family was rich in love and I wouldn’t trade them for all the money in the world.”

Families that play together, stay together!
Families that work together, enjoy the rewards together!

The 2 biggest relationship killers are money & sex. Both are curable with the right knowledge, communication and understanding.

For you younger people, build a communication with your parents and teachers, they been there, they can help, they want to help you!

Knowledge and communication are 2 big and important keys to a happy & lasting relationship.

Note: You liked this person at one time; don’t throw it all away, but Do Not force a relationship. Instead, keep it on a friend’s level and talk. Better to part friends then enemies, you might just learn something that will be useful for future relationships.
You have to meet in the middle, while maintaining your own personality and space. Remember, your partner is a separate individual and deserves to be treated as such.

Sex is a beautiful thing;
It is the ultimate experience in the sharing of love between any two people, with immediate physical and emotional gratification. Communication is a key ingredient to this ultimate sexual experience and satisfaction, for both parties.

Obviously, the sex doctors and advertising are not quite reaching you. There is still too much disease, teen & unplanned pregnancies, single parents and unsatisfied sexual encounters.

Because these problems still exist & sex is 1 of 2 reasons for failed relationships. I will be discussing in this book, popular sexual concerns from the curious first timer to the stale relationships and many in between.

How do you find the perfect relationship?
First, you have to look within YOU, and then you have to educate YOU.

Visualize: "You’re driving down the road, you come to a “T” and have to turn right or left, which way do you choose? Not enough information? What if you ask for help?
Life is just like this scenario; you can take a guess, but what if the wrong choice takes your life?
Or you could ask for help and make the right choice toward the city of “happily ever after”. Who do you ask? Ask the one’s you want to be with in that city “happily ever after”, not that 2-minute thrill ride friend. Only your true love, knows the way!"

First, we have to fix YOU! Then, we can fix the relationship!

The topic of this book is about how to build relationships that last a lifetime and the importance of great sex in your relationship.

On the money side:
1) Build a business together, early
2) Schedule play time together
3) Build a budget early (using percentages) (Minimum: 10% savings, 70% bills, 10% play and 10% miscellaneous).

If you can’t reach this goal, don’t worry. Live with fewer toys and pay your bills down, till you can.
If you can reach this goal, congratulations, you’re among the 10% who can.
If you do better than this goal, wow, you’re among the 1% who does. Think about helping others, if you can.
You will find a basic budget plan, very simple to use and works great, at the end of this book.

As great as it is to have things in common, it is just as important to have some things not in common, for your own space and to avoid suffocation. You love your partner, but everybody needs a little space from time to time.

P.S. Try this one day:

Wake up, stretch, look in the mirror; smile and say "You’re the best" (Make your own day first). Then sing a song of your choice and smile all day long. In case you can’t think of a song to sing, I have included a little jingle below to help you out:

I woke up this morning,
I was feeling all right;
I think I will dance,
I think I just might;
I got the music in me,
Yeah, yeah, YEAH!

Put a little bounce in your step while you walk and don’t forget to smile. Try it and see how many people follow you, how many people smile back and how many people have a good day because of you. This is good and good is contagious.
Do this as often as you like; sharing the good can never be too much.

Table of contents:

1)Relationship Fundamentals:

2)Under 18:
A) How & when to talk & educate your kids about sex
B) The pros & cons
C) For newbie’s to relationships
D) 1st love, 1st sex and 1st broken heart.

3)Over 18:
A)Single
B)Married
C)With Kids
D)Divorced

4)Sex:
A)Sexual Tips
B)G-Spot
C)Positions
D)Fantasies
E)For Men
F)For Women
G)Tips For First-Timers
H)Sexual Myths

5)The Truth About; Nudism, Love and Sex:

6)The Truth About; Hetero, Homo and Bi-Sexualities:

7)Conclusion & Additional Recommended Reading
~Quotes to live by~

Helpful Lists:
Family Budget
Sex Talk for Adults
Sex Talk for Children

Welcome to a new way of thinking, may your love life be happy and everlasting!
Written by: Robert M. (AKA: Dr. G.) from Family ABC's

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