Kids; Misguided & Troubled:

To The Children (18 & Under):

Our parents need your help with understanding, getting current with the times, with chores in these busy and hectic times and building trust.

Misguided:

Traits:
1) You have lack of self-esteem
2) You have lack of confidence
3) You have lack of knowledge
4) You have lack of bonding
5) You feel stressed
6) You feel alone
7) You feel unappreciated

Because of these traits, you tend to take the wrong path, you make the wrong friends, you get into trouble. It's not your fault, don't feel ashamed, you just didn't have the right guidance, values, discipline and bonding. You have been looking for that much needed bond, but just looking in all the wrong places.

You need to:
1) Think about who really cares about your well being (Parents, Counselors, Doctor, Priest, Coach, ...)
2) Ask for help (From any of the above, even if you're not on a team, you can still talk to the coach)
3) Talk about it (Don't just take orders, but communicate your true feelings)
4) Trust your elders (They do know some things and only care about your well being)
5) Build a bond (This is the most important thing you can ever do in life)

You need to do this for a successful life and take the right path. If you have true friends, they will understand and not try to guide you down that hard path of life.

This will:
1) Build self-esteem
2) Build self-confidence
3) Build your communication skills
4) Build trust with your loved ones
5) Build whatever you want
6) Build Your Successful Life

Troubled:

Traits:
1) You're a bully
2) You need attention
3) You lack knowledge
4) You lack closeness
5) You're self-centered
6) You're selfish
7) You're disrespectful

You obviously lack values for yourself as well as others, discipline for your actions and a true family bond, filled with love. You don't respect yourself, so you take it out on others.

You need to:
1) Learn to truly like and respect yourself
2) Build a true bond with someone you bullied (Learn about them)
3) Build a true bond with your family
4) Talk to a counselor about your illness
5) Get more discipline, rules and chores in your life
6) Think about what you are doing to others

This will:
1) Help you to be a better person
2) Help you to be more successful
3) Help you to have more true friends (Trustworthy)
4) Help you to stay out of trouble
5) Help you to truly enjoy all that life has to offer

It is your responsibility to listen, learn and grow. Ask questions when you don't know.

Everybody is equal. Everybody has feelings, even you. "What goes around, really does come around", think about that!

P.S. "Just Say NO To Drugs and anything else that may effect you or someone else in a negative way. You shall receive, what you give away, ten times over!

Life is tough enough, why make it tougher voluntarily?

Thank you and have a wonderful life.
Dr. G

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